Use Your Journal To Practice Writing In A Result-Based Way

In today’s mindset and multiplication training I talk to you about how to use your journal to begin to practice writing like an expert in your field. 

Experts are hired because they produce specific results.  You can begin right where you are to begin to think strategically and access painful situations from a problem solving perspective.

Journal as you go along:

  1. Describe the pain people were in.
  2. Write out how you would help them become more purposed. This should involve some big challenges for them.
  3. What results could they expect if they follow these strategies?
  4. What will happen to them if they don’t solve this problem?
  5.  How long do you think they will have to be consistent before they see results.

Watch the video for context and then do the following this week for practice. Begin to pray that God would begin to orchestrate conversations around you that will enable you to help others receive breakthrough. Questions? Comments? Tell me what you’re thinking!

Saddle up! We have a trail to blaze together!

How To Practice Walking In The Spirit

Phillips~Romans: 12 1-2 With eyes wide open to the mercies of God, I beg you, my brothers, as an act of intelligent worship, to give him your bodies, as a living sacrifice, consecrated to him and acceptable by him. Don’t let the world around you squeeze you into its own mould, but let God re-mould your minds from within, so that you may prove in practice that the plan of God for you is good, meets all his demands and moves towards the goal of true maturity.

Every day when your feet hit the floor you will be in a battle. There’s no Mr. or Mrs. Nice Christian. To win at spiritual warfare, you must be able to maintain a disciplined life and learn to walk in the spirit. I can tell you from first hand experience that it will require practice but as you surround yourself with others who also desire to live boldly for the kingdom, you will be TRANSFORM others with your faith rather than be conformed to the world’s desires for your life.

In today’s video, I talk to you about a couple things you can begin to do this week to learn how to practice walking in the spirit.

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Where Your Leaking Out Your Confidence

When I have someone tell me they can’t seem to stay bold or confident, this is the first question I ask them. 

If you answer yes to this then you are already transforming others around you with your faith.   

If you answered no to this question, then watch today’s video and discover the first question I would ask you if you and I were sitting down to solve this for you together! 

Do you hold back? If so, let me tell you that the path to becoming more courageous in Christ is not typically a one time event.

It’s an identity we GROW into over time by facing forward into the challenges that we experience on an every day basis. Obstacles that are divinely orchestrated to conform us to the image of Christ. And this is why we must be filled up overflowing and abiding in the presence of God daily. 

You see, most people do not truly believe that every problem they have is an opportunity to grow in leadership and that it is the will of God for them to solve. What people think most of the time is that there is something wrong with them that is flawed due to faulty mindsets. They become isolated and alone during suffering not understanding that learning how to process pain correctly is a normal part of the Christian faith. It’s not something to be escaped.

Obstacles are orchestrated by God to create in you an overcomer’s identity. God can use even the trauma’s you have experienced for his Glory if you can stretch your faith to receive that. 

Isaiah 45: 6-7 Berean Study Bible

so that all may know, from the rising of the sun to the place of its setting, that there is none but Me; I am the LORD, and there is no other. 7 I form light and create darkness; I bring prosperity and create calamity. I, the LORD, do all these things.

Through prayer and using the idea’s and revelation God gives us to move forward in faith you use your natural skills and spiritual gifts to solve a problem. This is the pathway to kingdom influence. 

In today’s video, I am going to share with you the first question I ask people who tell me they want to preach, teach, and mentor others in the kingdom. Maybe they want to missionary work or have a business or ministry but are struggling with fear and not knowing if they are in the will of God. 

This one thing is the key to living authentically before God and knowing His will for your life. It will also enable you to feel thankful for your life, empathetic and mindful (stay in the now) so you don’t project fearful outcomes into the future. (Or that I you fail at you goals).

Saddle up! We have a trail to blaze this week!

Love, Bec:)

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How To Upgrade Your Confidence Quickly

Are you praying for courage? To be able to influence others in an authentic way? THEN WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO not just a third!!!!

In this video, I explain the one question that I asked God that propelled me out of delay and into double and triple results for my life. This is very simple identity work you can do in your life to make 2020 one of your best years yet. (And boy did I get a financial promotion from this work:) If this blesses you please LIKE the video and COMMENT!)

Let’s be confident this year and be used by God in our generation to do GREAT EXPLOITS!

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How To Determine Ahead If Your Audience Will Pay For Coaching

Have you been wondering how some people make money life coaching and others don’t? In this week’s FREE TRAINING I explain to you why some people can’t get traction with their business.  People happily pay for what they value and what they need so it is important you discover who really you can stay in business long-term serving. 

The truth is 42% of start ups fail just because they don’t assess the market need before they begin. I love to hear my clients tell me they feel led of the Lord to launch a coaching business but the truth is, even Rick Warren did market research before launching Saddleback church. (Like 6 months worth) 

You have to ask yourself this question: Are the people I want to help receive transformation in a place emotionally where they will GLADLY invest money in my fee’s. If not, you can coach but you won’t be able to really keep a pipe-line filled with enough of these clients for you to stay profitable. 

Now, here’s the challenge a lot of new to marketing coaches have. They want to choose for other people what they think is valuable for them and not just work with them on solving their current pain. 

This takes you thinking about the area’s of your life you have genuine confidence in (because you overcame it through Christ) and also what the majority of people want to solve at any given time. For example, let’s look at what people want to solve at the beginning of every year. Read this article about the top 9 things to know about the diet industry just so you can see where people’s mindsets are moving to since this is 71% of what Americans want every year! 

Here are the top 10 New Year’s resolutions according to a survey of 2,000 people in 2019:
  • Diet or eat healthier (71 percent)
  • Exercise more (65 percent)
  • Lose weight (54 percent)
  • Save more and spend less (32 percent)
  • Learn a new skill or hobby (26 percent)
  • Quit smoking (21 percent)
  • Read more (17 percent)

So, here are more questions to ask yourself as you grow your leadership and consider launching a business coaching. 

1. Do I understand how to recognize what clients will invest in my coaching or which one’s honestly I need to have something free going on to help them take the next step? If you are stumped here, you could attend my Mindset Retreat or you could sign up for either the Leadership or Business Training as both these programs include in depth training on how to recognize where to lean your coaching niche. People do go from free to fee all the time with me but I have a process in place for this to occur authentically.  If you don’t, I offer a very disciplined, homework required to stay in, free group that will help you become a bold influencer step-by-step.  

2. Can I discern whether I need to partner with some counselors or can I market my coaching niche directly to my ideal client? In today’s video I break down for you some basic’s of where you can begin to discerning whether you need to send your client to a counselor or if they have what it takes to for coaching. Watch that here. 

3. Am I willing to start leading a small group right now and begin to do market research? This is something I recommend to everyone who wants to grow in their ability to make disciples as well as fine tune their ability to cause people to take action. During this time I recommend you write down all your participants reason’s they joined your group, (pain problem) what specific life challenges they had during your sessions and what exact results did you help them achieve. Write all this down because as you become more serious about or your ready to launch your business or grow your ministry, you can use this information to identify your boldest identity zones of coaching and also the kind of people that are being attracted to you effortlessly. You will also want to get very specific testimonials from these individuals. 

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Abundance Thinking vs. How To Keep Your Faith Activated Until You See Results

Today I want to share with you how I keep my faith activated until I see results without abundance thinking or manifestation tools.  I had to grow my business after an identity theft for almost a million dollars and in the beginning of the great recession.

I’d be lying to say I didn’t feel completely d-e-s-p-e-r-a-t-e in the beginning. Some of it was because I wasn’t sure I had what it took to coach and be successful and then next do I have what it takes to grow and be profitable. Almost everything I found on mindset training early on in my business was abundance or manifestation thinking from a universal perspective. As in I visualize, I love myself and I expect the “universe” wants to send me blessings.

It was SO FRUSTRATING because I needed basic how to get leads consistently business training and the people I saw were either super hype, talk about me,me,me and my millions I have made for everyone, wine glasses in the air (like sign me up, she drinks wine and takes great vacations) or literally one with the universe people.  I literally found no one doing no cussing, no hype or non fear-based business coaching (that’s when you drive people with how they are going to miss out over and over again, or stay poor, naked and alone.) You laugh until you see it over and over again. Sigh.

And here’s the thing I never hear anyone explain and I might be the only one who had to solve this but honestly I think in the church we need to do a better job on pointing out what’s at the heart of all the abundance thinking. It’s idolatrous and I will explain to you why I think that and why I never would attend any business coach training that used this. Or at least twice:) I can eat the chicken and spit out the bones but don’t want to choke to death and pay good money for an underlying rip current to my faith. I think God has better for those who love him. So let me explain what I say all this.

First of all, let’s be on the same page about what idolatry means. To me, it’s anything that distracts from the cross and Jesus Christ as Lord and savior of the world. He died because we were sinners and could not be reconciled by our own efforts and return to co-creating (stewarding in the garden) with the Father a life that glorifies Him. All blessings flow from Jesus and the Father so to try and go around Him and get your own way without acknowledging Jesus is Lord means you’re trying go around the door and into the wide path. First question for anyone who you follow in business should be, Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the ONLY way and all blessings flow from Him. If they can’t say yes or they say I believe there are lots of ways, walk away. Here’s a great read on Rees Howell intercessor about how he prayed in faith and fed orphans supernaturally. This man will change your prayer life! 

Next, I think you need to be clear about your identity in Christ (prayer & dealing with spiritual warfare) and also about solidifying your personal leadership identity (boundaries, skills and talents)  Here’s a video that explains that if you are not sure what I am talking about.  This is important because you have to grow your LEADERSHIP AND SKILLS in conjunction with your PRAYER LIFE if you want to be profitable in business. Every year you have to be generating new leads, solving problems and serving people well.

Third, I believe God has called us to co-create our lives with Him by discerning our natural talents, spiritual gifts and stewarding them with excellence. We aren’t to sit around waiting on some angel or prophetic person to give us a word of God.  Before the Fall we were placed to name and steward and work with God. God expects us to grow what he gives us without hiding due to not understanding his nature.  This is clear in the parable about the faithful steward.

Fourth, Christ came to show us how to overcome the adversary and become ambassadors for Him in our work. And this is where I think there is not enough teaching in the church and why I wrote 4 Phases Of Spiritual Warfare because not everyone is called into full time ministry and honestly, most Christians underestimate that spiritual success comes from laying down your life and learning how to overcome adversity God’s way. Sometimes people want to pick how God will use them instead of just being okay with what he worked into their lives and what people really need.  This in my perspective is how messages are created that glorify God. They come from tests being turned into TESTIMONIES. If you can align your natural love for teaching into a speaking or coaching business that glorifies God this is a no brainer for me. Sign me up!

Fifth, here’s my interpretation of the abundance/manifestation thoughts. It’s about solving lack, failure and other fear-based thinking through repeating to yourself you are just wonderful and aligning yourself with a core belief of Hey! Everything is going to work out great if you just believe that the universe wants to work with you and not against you. Here’s the problem with that. I believe without Christ I am a HOT MESS. Ask my husband. Ask my kids. I have an enemy who wants to kill, steal and destroy my faith, my marriage, my children and my testimony.  God has told me to sober and diligent and do certain things to preserve unity, stay in fellowship with other believers and be able to point people towards Christ as the one and only Lord and savior of the universe.

Now let me explain abundance through your identity in Christ and a faith filled mindset:

God has given you a spirit of power, love and sound mind. Your mission is to make disciples in your family, your friendships and in your work. You are an overcomer by the blood of the lamb and the word of your testimony and you love your life not even unto death. Not everything will work out to make you happy or feel good. You will be hated and persecuted for standing up for Christ. However, God says to you, the plans he has for you are to prosper you and to bring you to an expected end so that you can be a light on a hill. He’s going to send you to preach, teach and pray for people to be healed because you faced adversity in Christ and God gave you grace to get through it. He says to forcefully deal with demonic forces with prayer, fasting and speaking the word to invisible and oppressive forces. And guess what? You’re seated with Christ in the heavenlies far above powers and high places so walk in your authority today and use your identity in Christ. You are a force to be reckoned with because of the work He did. 

Note: You will never hear these abundance people talk about prayer, fasting and preaching Christ resurrected. Why? Because they are drawing you away from dependence on Christ and into self reliance.

Here’s a couple sum ups:

  1. I believe if you want to finish your faith strong and be successful in your personal leadership and business, you will have to solve with militancy how your going to overcome self-limiting beliefs. This is the stuff you say to yourself when you feel lack, the places in your identity where you are incongruent (say one thing, do another) and what you do when you when you are stressed beyond belief. These 3 things will make or break your success. This is primarily what I teach in my Leadership Track because the statistics say that up to 50% of the church come from an addiction based background. That’s a lot of stinking thinking!
  2. In today’s video I talk to you about some practical examples of how to keep your faith activated in prayer and match your confession with it until you see results. This works in your personal life and business without new age techniques. I share with you time tested breakthrough tips I use.
  3. Here’s the Mindset Retreat I do once a year in November. I go into more training on Abundance there. 

If you have any questions, just post them below! Love, Bec:)

Starting A Christian Coaching Business-FAQ

You have been praying and believing to help people receive transformation. You also have been dreaming about having your own business and now you’re at the point where you are ready to take the steps to turn this into a reality! Today I am going to walk you through the steps I took as I started my business so you can begin to put your platform and systems in place for consistent lead generation. 

Technically there is a point where you are going to have a problem with the IRS if you don’t run payroll and stay tax compliant but that will be a little further down the road after you make some basic decisions.

  1. First is deciding what kind of business identity you want.  An LLC or a Sole Proprietorship. This is pretty important from protecting yourself personally. Generally, sole proprietors are started because they are free. However, one of the great benefits with an LLC versus the sole proprietorship is that a your liability is limited to the amount of the money you invest in your business. A sole proprietor would be liable for the debts incurred by the business. and more scary is if someone sues you and takes you to court, they can go after a sole proprietor’s home, car and other personal property. A sole p uses their social security number instead of EIN. If you go LLC you will need an EIN.  Have a conversation with your CPA basically. If you make more than $400 coaching you need to pay taxes on it. See more here. 
  2. You need to file for a EIN number if you answer yes to any of these questions.
  3. You will need to register your business with your state’s tax office. Here is Georgia’s for example. 
  4. You will need to register with the Department of Labor in your state. Here is Georgia’s. 
  5. You will need an occupational tax license in your city even if you work from home. Example. When you apply you need to bring your state license.

Now, here’s good news. Once you launch your business, you can officially write off business coaching as an expense for your business. Leadership coaching cannot be written off but business coaching can!

There are also numerous things you can write off for your business tax wise including marketing you do on social media, events you host, speaking you do around your business and expenses like writing books, your website and any support you receive for that. Of course talk to your tax accountant about details but this will get you started!

Faith Forward! Love, Bec:)

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How to get authentic testimonials: Christian coach business training

Today I talk to you about how to recognize what you do that really is a gift to people even before you launch a business. When you can identify this, it begins to help you build Godly confidence. When you do the work to grow in clarity about the gifts and talents God has entrusted to you, then you can begin to multiply and steward them to a greater degree.

If you are already received your certification as a coach and you want to begin to grow your clientele, then it’s to your benefit to watch todays video (if it helps you, please like) and learn how to ask for a very specific testimonial when you are finished serving you first couple clients.

General testimonials do not grow your business, they just leave you feeling nice. We want you to feel valued and your business to grow profitably! Just keeping it real!

Remember get started with what you have in your hand today and tomorrow you can become a paid coach or speaker!

Love, Bec:)


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Life Coach Training: Authenticity Vs. Oversharing

As a life coach and speaker, you must be clear on the difference between what is authentic and what is gratuitous attention seeking behavior. This is when it is essential to be spending time in solitude, meditation and prayer. You must have a clear conscience daily before God before you seek to influence others.

On a side note, one of the characteristics of people who grow up in shame-based or addiction based homes is their tendency to overshare information. This is to position themselves for more sympathy or as a victim. They also believe if they give out really personal information it will help gain trust without giving the time for people to examine their actions.

What I have seen as a coach is if someone is telling their story on social media and it’s still happening, that’s my first red flag. Next is when people start processing out their pain in front of an audience with no plan on how to solve it. We should only share information that others are going to be able to learn how to profit from. If we don’t have that yet then we haven’t technically become an overcomer in that situation and it’s attention seeking.

This can problem can be easily moved through from simple leadership training and asking the Holy Spirit to illuminate to us when we just need to be quiet. This again is why it is so important to cultivate a life of inner solitude before God.

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Use what’s in your hand today! Love, Bec:)


3 Steps From Behind The Scenes To Upfront Influencer

I have some great news for you today if you feel like God has been calling you to EXPAND your vision and leadership and you just don’t know how to obey him and enlarge your boundary stones. Time to shine your light!

Today’s video will show you what you have to switch in your mindsets and what to do practically.

Like if it encouraged you and leave a comment and I have a personal invitation for you for deeper (FREE) mentoring at the end! Here’s the link! 

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Get started today with what’s in your hand if you want to be a faithful steward! Love, Bec:)

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